This is a work in progress, reading the 24 steps you may think the process is easy, but when you actually start implementing the steps, you will soon find that it's harder than it appears, but well worth the effort. ~Todd
Let go of Expectations
expectations of how others should treaat us can cause untold stress
and pain. When we let go expectations go, it will see us free from
Learn to Accept
cannot and should not control everything in life. Acceptance of
self, others and life situations is essential if we want to live a
happy, healthy life.
Release Dependency on Others When
we depend on another to make us feel happy or to give our life
meaning, we miss out on our own unique journey.
Control your Thoughts Most
of our stress is born, not from our life situations but the way we
think about them. Choose your thoughts wisely.
Judge Not Judging
another will only serve in making you fearful of others judgments
towards you; which in turn will make you afraid of doing, saying or
Stop Procrastinating Don’t
put off today what you can do tomorrow. Time goes by too quickly.
Don’t waste life thinking about what you could be doing and just do
Be at peace with criticism Trying
to go through life avoiding criticism will only stop you from doing
what you are meant to do and becoming who you are meant to be.
Change not another nor let another change you
Allow yourself or others to be who they truly are. Trying to mold
another into being the person you want them to be, or changing
oneself to please another takes away life's opportunities.
Don’t Take it Personally
another judges, criticizes or treats you, it is not a reflection on
you but on them. Just because another thinks you are wrong does not
make them right. Allow others to have their opinion but don’t let
it be the voice in your head.
Stay Unique With
everyone trying to fit in, originality is rare. Give yourself the
gift of being a one-off original.
Never Give Up Good
things aren’t meant to arrive overnight and we have little
appreciation of that which comes easy. If you want something and
believe in it, keep striving towards it, no matter what your
Leave the Crowd Behind We
are each here to enjoy our own exclusive life experience, following
the crowd stops you from having it.
Collect Experiences not Treasures The
only thing we get to take with us when we leave this body is our
knowledge and experience. Our possessions stay behind.
Abandon the Fear of Failure A
failure is simply a learning experience to teach us how not to do
something in the future. When we learn something, through failure, it
is a valuable gift that only we can give ourselves.
Believe in Yourself Believe
in what you want to do, not what family wants of you or society
expects you to do. If you don’t believe in yourself, no one else
Love What You Do and Do What You love When
you are happy in your work, success will follow.
Don’t Place Your Worth on Your Appearance Youthful
looks will fade in time but the beauty within continues to grow.
Embrace who you are and not how you look.
Take Responsibility for Your Actions Live
life believing karma exists.
Create the Change You Want To See Don’t
wait for someone else to do it first. Be the answer you’ve been
Treat Everyone as an Equal No
one is better than another, no matter what their wealth or status.
Believing we are better or lesser than another leads to grandiosity
or lack of self-worth.
Listen to Others Most
are not listening, they are simply waiting for their chance to speak.
When we allow ourselves to really hear what others are saying, we
expand our own consciousness.
Take Not Revenge It
is not up to us to punish others for what we consider bad
behavior. When we treat others badly, or push them away, to teach
them a lesson, it will always backfire!
Remember You Have Freewill It
is your life, you do not have to do anything you do not want or
Allow Yourself to Give and Receive Love Opening
your heart is not a sign of weakness, it’s a show of strength.